V Day - D Day
Date: 6/6/2024,
Categories:
Loving Wives,
Author: byHubby57
... what they had been missing. They started feeling alive. In fact it was a chemical reaction they were feeling. High levels of dopamine and norepinephrine were being released, and it created an addiction, like a craving for chocolate. They just wanted more and more. At first, these wives felt they were doing nothing wrong, but as the flirting and outside attraction grew, they realized they were having an emotional affair, and it caused a lot of guilt. But they couldn't stop. When these affairs became physical, these women started justifying it by putting the blame for the affair on their husbands. They began feeling they deserved this. In almost all of these cases, the wives described how great they were at hiding this from their husbands."
"There are more phases. I won't go into them. They don't pertain to us, but there is a lot of information out there if you are curious. I do think we, you, are in phase one. I do not think you are in phase two, and I hope and pray that you still love me, and you are not feeling excitement from other men. But I feel lost right now, Sam. I am not sure exactly where we stand. I feel like I am I a boat that is taking on water, and the harder I try to bale, the more it is leaking in. I need you to know how I feel. If you are falling out of love with me, or you want to feel excitement from other men, even just emotional, I will not go down with the ship. We should just pull the plug now."
Sam had stayed silent and her demeanor had softened. ...
... But suddenly, she looked fearful. "You want a Divorce?" almost pleading.
"No. I love you with all my heart! A divorce would devastate me. But, if you no longer love me, or there is the possibility of you being with another man, that slow death would be even more devastating. I can't just sit here and watch our love and or marriage slip away. I won't watch it die a painful death. No, I don't want a divorce. I want you to figure out what you want. I want you to do research or talk to others. I am open to marriage counseling, starting to date again like we did when we first met, spending time alone to talk, watching porn, adding games, anything and everything you feel can bring us back together. More than anything, I want complete openness and honesty, even if it will be painful. I deserve the truth."
"Well, that's all I have. Thanks for listening to me."
Sam remained silent for a minute, "My first reaction is that you are really overreacting," She paused again. "But this is obviously really bothering you and I did not realize how much." She paused again. "I really don't know what to say."
I stood up. "Sam, take your time and think about this. You have been asking me for space, and that is what I will give you. I will not bring this up again. The ball is in your court. When you are ready to talk, let me know. I will also stop trying to pull you back in with romantic gestures and affection. All that has done nothing but push you further away. And I will no longer try ...