My neighbour and her teenage daughter (4) - Sex Stories

My neighbour and her teenage daughter (4)

... longer this continues the more deep-seated the problem becomes, and the more difficult it is to change the mindset." Cyn looked understandably concerned. "So what can we do? How do we help her move past this?" Rhonda sat back and steepled her fingers under her chin as she looked across her desk. "I need to ask how honest you were with me yesterday, particularly when I asked you about your attitudes toward sex and your moral standards. If you want to change your opinion this would be an opportune time to do so, as what I’m about to suggest may be a little…unconventional." They were somewhere between curious and concerned at that comment so Tony called her on it. "Do many people actually do that? Tell you one thing and then change their mind twenty-four hours later?" She gave him a rueful smile. "No Tony, they normally stick to their story. And then they tell me I'm crazy after I suggest a specific course of therapy." Cyn and Tony exchanged glances. "I think we need to know what you have in mind Rhonda." He said quietly. "Ok then. What Shannon is feeling is not unusual in young victims of parental sexual abuse. Fundamentally, she's been repeatedly abused by a person in a position of trust and authority, and she's confused about her womanhood and sexual capabilities. She has deep-seated concerns about her ability to enjoy sexual contact, specifically her ability to respond to sexual stimuli in a normal manner. The longer this continues the more difficult it will be to move past ...

... it, to the extent she may become unable to enjoy normal levels of intimacy without extensive long-term therapy. This could potentially manifest itself in difficulty in forming a meaningful relationship. In short she could become what is commonly referred to as frigid. She told me she doesn’t have a boyfriend or anyone that she’s interested in at the moment?” Cyn nodded slowly. “I don’t believe there’s anyone.” She agreed. “That’s unfortunate.” Rhonda stated. “If there were someone and this doesn’t contradict your standards, I’d suggest that you encourage them to develop a relationship as normal, healthy teenagers would. This limits our options somewhat, so I need to ask another potentially sensitive question; how do you feel about masturbation?” Tony blushed despite the clinical nature of the discussion, glancing at Cyn who seemed to be sharing a similar level of discomfort, and thankful she replied to Rhonda’s suggestion. “We don’t see anything wrong with masturbation, but we don’t openly encourage it either. Are you suggesting we should?” Rhonda nodded slowly. “The best way to help Shannon move forward is through positive reinf***ement. What I’m specifically suggesting is creating the situation where she can enjoy sexual activity and realize her body responds in a normal manner, and she learns to enjoy the associated pleasure. If she had a boyfriend and you had no objection, I would encourage you to give them space to enjoy normal boy-girl contact. As that is not a current ...