Love is a Place Ch. 01: The Puzzle - Sex Stories

Love is a Place Ch. 01: The Puzzle

... think my body may be unattractive as it is too hairy.

Principle evidence:

1.Much of the romantic lesbian literature mentions women being shaved.

2.Observations at the swimming pool suggest that shaving armpits and legs seems to be standard feminine hygiene.

3.I have never shaved my legs, armpits or pubis.

Conclusion:

Unless I shave these areas, I risk my body being considered unattractive.

Actions:

Here Samantha paused. As with so many issues to do with her body - periods, bras, appropriate clothing for different situations, unwanted attention/contact from boys/men - Dr Alison and Sarah were usually those who provided guidance on the appropriate actions. Running through the likely outcomes of talking to Sarah about this, Samantha realised she might be asked why this was a concern for her. Therefore, seeing as Dr Alison had told her she could email or call any time, she decided to email Dr Alison.

Email Dr Alison for advice on next steps.

There was no point in delaying this action, so Samantha did so right away. Then she returned to her reading list.

Dr Alison's advice was quick to come.

Dear Samantha

Thank you for your email and kind wishes. I hope this finds you well.

Let me get straight to your Puzzle.

In our society, hair under the armpits and on the legs is, traditionally, considered unattractive. I must stress that this is a beauty standard largely defined by men: therefore, as it appears that you are not interested in ...

... attracting men, there is no reason for you to conform to this. However, there is also no harm in conforming to it: it will provide an instant solution to the Puzzle and set your mind at rest.

A further factor to consider is: what is Sarah's preference? This should be easy for you to ascertain. There is no need to ask her. Simply observe how she maintains her own body hair. If she shaves her armpits, legs and elsewhere, it is highly likely that this is what she considers attractive. If she doesn't, then this is probably not something she considers important.

Anticipating other questions you might have e.g. How to go about shaving if you decide to do so. Well, I have looked online and there are many youtube video tutorials on how to do this. Also, most depilatory creams (my own preferred method) come with clear instructions on how to do this. However, many female friends find that grooming together is a bonding experience: therefore, this probably is something you could approach Sarah with, or perhaps the other friend you mentioned, Amanda. I suspect that both would be pleased to guide you in this area.

Would it be correct to interpret from your latest email that you have now solved your other Puzzle? The Puzzle of whether or not you are attracted to Sarah? I cannot imagine that you would be concerned about taking such steps if this was not the case.

Would you like to talk to me about this? Or, would you like me to talk to Sarah on your behalf? (The role of the go-between ...