The process of taking someone through the 12 steps - Sex Stories

The process of taking someone through the 12 steps

The process of taking someone through the 12 steps of alcoholics anonymous People will approach you to take the through the big book and when they do approach you ask them: 1 do you want what I have? 2 what are you willing to do to get it? 3. Have the person read the first 164 pages of the big book and after for them to call you Read it, just read it Don’t bug them, do not ask them where they are in there reading. Humbling him or her is the key What is working for them is not working for them anymore or they would not be coming to see you… Let them come to you… very important… When they call you… you set up the date, time and place that is convenient for you He says he can not do it on Tuesday -what did you lie to me... -you told me that you are willing to go to any length -you do not want to make it inconvenant for him... you do not want him to loose his job -Is he willing to do anything...? *your convenience, always* -You do this one on one – face to face He must understand that your and his most valued asset is your or his time... -have him come to you; you do not come to him... Try your best to be alone... Let us get started Bring out the big book of alcoholics annonomous that the program of alcoholic anonymous is outlined in the first 164 pages of the big book Have the person you are working with agree to it… this is very important have a dictionary text book alcoholic alcoholism alcohol drug sponsor Point out that drugs are not the same as alcohol 9 A little AA history ...

... There are two types of AA’s 1 bill w New York AA – fear in fellowship. 2 dr. bob Ackron Ohio as – fait and trust Clarence snider had the first aa meeting in Cleveland Ohio Go right to the title page and have them read aloud Look up recovered and ask them the meaning To restore to a normal state * The older the dictionary the better We talking keep your conversation in the past the first 9 steps you are only dealing with the time he first came into AA back Look up the word precisely and any other word you think should be looking up Unmanageability and powerlessness in regard to there drinking point this out over and over as we read *** MUST BLOW ALL THE THEY Says out of the water ***after there is one thing I will want you to do, for you to care to another recovering alcoholic in the same way/ process that I showed you… When talking share your experience and how you are staying and living sober Our way is not the only way but it is the way that worked The title page The story of how many thousands of men and women have recovered from alcoholism Preface Read it and refer back to your definition of the word basic text Because this book has become the basic text of our Society and has helped suck large numbers of alcoholic men and women to recover, there exists a sentiment against any radical changes being made in it. There ore, the first portion of this volume, describing the A.A.recovery program, has been left untouched in the course of remissions made for both the second and ...