1. The Art of Anal: Book One of Guide to Sexy Activities


    Date: 5/12/2017, Categories: Information, Anal Consensual Sex Pegging, Toys, Virginity Written by women Author: Trixie Tango, Source: sexstories.com 

    Lots of Lube and Patience. There might be poop. Everyone has a butthole. This means everyone has the opportunity to experience the pleasure of butt play. Those are three universal truths regarding the Art of Anal. Confidence is always the first step to any sexual encounter. This is something I post at the beginning of all my guides. Whether you are attracting a mate, trying something new, or assuring your partner that 'it won't hurt' confidence is the Most Valuable Player. There are only two ways to gain confidence. The first is to be a good actor. This is definitely not a recommended option and has a huge fail rate. If you do not really understand what you are doing, you or your partner will get hurt. Getting hurt will ruin that experience and will destroy any trust you have formed preparing for this activity. Your partner will most likely not want to participate in this activity again. Ultimately, there was no actual confidence gained but there was a lot to lose. The best way to gain confidence is through knowledge. Knowledge is gained either through trial & error or eduaction (reading this is a step in educating yourself!) Education also reduces the amount of error in your trials, increasing your pleasurable experiences. There are some people who have always known anal to be pleasurable and preferred form of intercourse. Unless your partner has asked for it before you brought it up, they either did not have a pleasurable experience or They are afraid it will hurt. Anal ...
    ... sex should never be painful . if it hurts stop and switch to something else to distract your partner and to prevent you from being frustrated. 1.)Prep: figure out what you're doing and how you are going to get there. Look at a diagram. Map out the sights to feel in your butt. Theres the initial muscle that resists then easily opens up and stays out of the way. Then like three inches in theres a muscke that offers much more resistance. Don't watch a porn to figure it out. They are actors and all the prepwork is done before the camera is rolling and chances are this isnt actually the star's first time and they know what to expect and how to control their muscles. 2.) Take a trip to your local adult store. At the minimum you need lube. Spit is NOT lube! Remember how studies have shown your mouth is dirtier than a dog's mouth or a public toilet? your holes are your most precious and sensitive areas. Dont coat them in germs then try to go at it tearing the skin and let those germs enter your body. I dont care that Asa Akira says about how spit is the best and natural. Swamp sludge is natural. DONT NUMB THE AREA. Pain is a good thing Pain lets you know you are doing something wrong or too quickly. If you really cannot get relaxed enough to let your muscles untense (there are two big musles you have to pass through), try using a relaxing lubricant. My favorite is ID Backslide. It features several natural relaxants, like clove extract, that prevent your muscles from tensing If you are ...
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